When asking reflective questions, be sure you don’t shout them. The adage, “What you are doing speaks so loudly that I can’t hear what you are saying” rings true here. Your tone of voice communicates almost as much as the words. It reminds me of the following poem:
It’s not only what you say But the manner in which you say it. It’s not only the language you use But the tone in which you convey it. “Come here!” I sharply said, And the child cowered and wept. “Come here,” I gently said. He looked and smiled And straight to my lap he crept. Words may be mild and fair But the tone can pierce like a dart. Words may … >>> READ MORE >>> →