Just as young children don’t want to be carried while they are learning to walk, adolescents don’t want adults making decisions for them.
The only way we can learn to walk is to practice walking.
Similarly, the only way to assist maturation for responsible behavior is to practice decision-making.
Each time you make a decision for another person, you deprive that person of an opportunity for maturity and responsibility.
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