Discipline Without Stress Newsletter – April 2008

Volume 8 Number 4

IN THIS ISSUE:

1. Welcome

2. Promoting Responsibility

3. Increasing Effectiveness

4. Improving Relationships

5. Promoting Learning

6. Discipline without Stress

7. Testimonials and Research 

1. WELCOME

MONTHLY RESPONSIBILITY AND LEARNING QUOTE:

Discipline is defined as the ability to make yourself do

what you have to do or should do before you do what you want

to do.

—The National World War II Museum

   New Orleans, Louisiana

———

Dr. George Thomas, former Phi Delta Kappa International

President and leader of the education program at Mississippi

State University in Meridian, hosted my presentation to

over 100 attendees at their Phi Delta Kappa meeting.

The university is one of only fourteen in the nation that

has a partnership with the Kennedy Performing Arts Center in

Washington, D.C. The coordination between the university’s

performing arts center and the Kennedy Center is remarkable.

Aside from local productions, professional actors teach

local teachers how to use theatre approaches to involve

students in visual, auditory, and kinesthetic experiences.

This is one of the most creative educational approaches

around. To find out more, visit www.MSURileyCenter.com

It is a real pleasure to find that an increasing number of

schools and districts are reinstating arts education.

Experiences in music, theatre, art, dance, and similar areas

of expression spark interest and stimulate the right brain

hemisphere. As such, these activities enhance and complement

the more traditional left brain hemisphere school

experiences. Thus, right brain activities have a direct

bearing on learning basic skills. For example, since music

has a mathematical base , it can prompt interest in

math–and visa versa.

———

The April 2 issue of USA Today concludes its editorial (page

10A) entitled, “Dealing with Dropouts,” as follows:

“In this global economy, where post-high school study is

often required even for blue-collar jobs, dropping out of

high school usually amounts to an economic death sentence.

It’s imperative to get the size of the dropout problem out

in the open and throw a lifeline to the young people at

risk.”

Obviously, students who drop out of school are more likely

to lack literacy skills or become responsible citizens. This

is not only a school challenge, IT IS AN INCREASING HEALTH

AND SAFETY CHALLENGE FOR SOCIETY.

In an attempt to develop more socially responsible young

citizens and have youth find more success and satisfaction

in school, I have started a nonprofit public charitable

organization.

Any public K – 12 school in the United States in a low

economic area can apply for free assistance in the form of

books, the In-House Development package, and—depending on

location—free staff development by the author.

Application information is at

http://www.DisciplineWithoutStress.org.

2. PROMOTING RESPONSIBILITY

OR HOW NOT TO!

The following is from a mailring  post

I just wanted to quickly relay a rewards-based disaster.

One of our seventh-graders, in fact, the daughter of a

teacher, recently wanted to go to the Positive Behavior

Support (PBS) reward dance. She is an A honor roll student,

never a discipline problem, and a wonderful kid. In the

haste of “bribing” misbehaving students to be good, we

neglected to “reward” her for doing what she had motivated

herself to do. Long story short, she did not have enough PBS

tickets to go to the dance. How horrible!!

Looks like rewards systems don’t quite cover the good kids

as well as they should. Good thing that they are

intrinsically motivated and feel good about the fact that

they are great kids and their teachers love them!

———

A response post:

Your experience really points out what I think is a big

problem with any reward based behaviour program–the fact

that the goal of the program (often not clearly stated) is

simply to get kids to behave. When the goal is obedience,

then the program isn’t truly too worried about the kids who

are already obedient. Then things happen–just as they did

in your school where a wonderful child is left feeling

terrible. Of course, no one intended for that to happen but

still that’s often the result.

That’s why I feel so strongly about DISCIPLINE WITHOUT

STRESS. The goal is to raise everyone, not just those who

are a big problem—so the program can focus on all kids.

That’s what I love: EVERY kid gains. Some gain by bringing

them up to Level C, while those who are already there gain,

too. They learn about Level D, which is such a valuable

understanding for living the rest of their lives. No other

program that I’m aware of provides this understanding.

Thanks for participating on our mailring!

Kerry

3. INCREASING EFFECTIVENESS

The following is from a recent communication:

Dr Marshall:

I really enjoyed your presentation in Margate, New Jersey. I

am a strong believer in positive thinking and you verified

many aspects that have been helpful to me. You specifically

spoke about a Japanese classroom during your talk.

Unfortunately, I did not hear what you said because I was

taking notes. Would you mind telling me the benefits of a

Japanese classroom?

I also enjoy your newsletters. Even though I have been

teaching for over 30 years, there is still so much to learn

especially from experts like you.

Thank you,

Kathy Revelle

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Dear Kathy,

The JAPANESE teaching model first aims at motivation.

Teachers start lessons by giving students some activity that

prompts curiosity, promotes a challenge, or shares something

novel. MOTIVATION IS IMMEDIATELY AROUSED because curiosity

is a wonderful motivator and because students WANT to find

the answer or solve the problem.

In the UNITED STATES, many teachers ASSUME that the students

are already motivated to learn. So they teach a lesson and

then assign follow-up work—WITHOUT GIVING ANY ATTENTION TO

MOTIVATION.

Unfortunately, too many teachers do not understand that

education is about motivation.

Both students and teachers would become more effective if

TEACHERS were to first ask themselves the reason they are

teaching the lesson. Then (a) share that reason with

students, and (b) plan an activity that creates interest at

the outset of the lesson.

4. IMPROVING RELATIONSHIPS

Anything that is done TO
another person (rather than WITH

the person) prompts negative feelings of reluctance,

resistance, resentment, and sometimes even rebellion and

retaliation.

5. PROMOTING LEARNINHAVING A SYSTEM TO RELY ON AND REFER TO IS SUPERIOR TO

HAVING A TALENT.

Working in Harlem under contract for three years with the

New York City Board of Education taught me an invaluable

lesson: Having a teaching SYSTEM is far superior to talent

when a teacher faces challenging behaviors in the classroom.

The assistant superintendent and I were very impressed while

observing a teacher one year. We agreed that the teacher was

a “natural.” However, when I visited the teacher the

following year, she told me that three boys were such

challenges that she could use some assistance.

Even teachers with a “natural talent” are challenged by

student behaviors that teachers in former generations did

not have to deal with. To retain the joy that the teaching

profession offers and to reduce one’s stress, having a

SYSTEM to rely on can help significantly. THE DISCIPLINE

WITHOUT STRESS TEACHING MODEL describes such a SYSTEM. It

contains four phases:

I. TEACHING PROCEDURES

The first phase differentiates classroom management from

discipline. CLASSROOM MANAGEMENT is about teaching,

practicing, and reinforcing procedures and is the teacher’s

responsibility. DISCIPLINE, in contrast, is about

self-control and impulse management and is the student’s

responsibility. More on this topic is available at

 

II. Practicing Three Principles

This second phase describes three universal principles to

inspire and induce students to initiate their own changes.

The principles are POSITIVITY, CHOICE, and REFLECTION. Using

just these three principles can change a person’s personal

and professional life. See


III. BEING PROACTIVE IN DISCIPLINE

This third phase describes THE RAISE RESPONSIBILITY SYSTEM.

It starts with being PROACTIVE by teaching a hierarchy of

four (4) concepts relating to social (and personal)

development. The hierarchy inspires students to WANT to

behave responsibly. This is in contrast to the usual

approach where the teacher reacts only AFTER an

irresponsible behavior. Teaching a lesson at the outset that

has students WANT to behave responsibly reduces stress and

is both more efficient and effective. See

http://marvinmarshall.com/hierarchy.htm

After teaching the concepts, CHECKING FOR UNDERSTANDING is

used when a disruption occurs. If misbehavior continues,

then GUIDED CHOICES are used to help the student develop a

procedure to help him/herself—or in severe cases, to elicit

a consequence.

The approach is totally noncoercive (but not

permissive) and employs internal motivation—rather than

relying on shorter-lasting external manipulations of

threats, punishments, or rewards. 

IV. USING THE SYSTEM TO INCREASE ACADEMIC PERFORMANCE

This phase has students becoming motivated to put forth

effort to increase learning—without the teacher’s use of

any external motivators. Instead, the teacher refers to the

four (4) concepts of the hierarchy. First, pictures are

painted of the concepts in students’ minds BEFORE students

engage in a lesson or activity. Then AFTER the activity,

students take just a moment to REFLECT on their chosen

concept. Students WANT to achieve at the highest concept

level just by the nature of the hierarchy. By being

PROACTIVE BEFORE and employing REFLECTION AFTER, motivation

toward learning is significantly increased.

More explanations of each of the above are available for

further study and download at http://marvinmarshall.com.

For those who desire a more in-depth understanding and would

like to share the RAISE RESPONSIBILITY SYSTEM with

administrators and others, please print the pdf version of

the Phi Delta Kappan cover article at

http://marvinmarshall.com/pdf/Phi_Delta_Kappan.pdf

6. Discipline without Stress

Marv,

I had the pleasure of hearing you speak last weekend at the

ASCD Conference in New Orleans. Thank you for your

encouraging words.

I am a fourth grade teacher who desperately wants to move

away from students only working for rewards that is the

nature of “behavior plans” at my school. After implementing

a few of your strategies in my classroom, I am pleased with

the way my students have responded. Because I, and all their

previous teachers, have used rewards, I am unsure how they

will react if I do away with all tangible rewards.

———

MY RESPONSE:

Use principle two, CHOICE, of the three principles to

practice.

Rather than stopping the use of rewards, give your students

the CHOICE. It sounds like the following: “For those of you

who still feel that I need to reward you for doing what you

should be doing, let me know and I will do so. For those who

believe that you are mature enough not to need such rewards,

you will find your efforts so much more satisfying.”

Once students—of any age—understand the difference between

Level C (EXternal motivation) and Level D (INternal

motivation), they quickly realize that token rewards are

given to manipulate them, and they quickly lose interest in

receiving such rewards.

———

The communication continued:

Do you think it is possible to make such large changes to my

classroom this late in the year? Or would I do better to

make small changes this year, and start next year fresh

without punishments and rewards?

Kate Loescher

Fourth Grade

New Orleans, LA

———

MY RESPONSE:

Start NOW!

The only things that students need to know are the four

levels of social development. You can teach the hierarchy in

one setting by just sharing the vocabulary concepts and then

having students give examples of what each level would look

like in your classroom. 

7. Testimonials/Research

I found out about the newsletter because my fellow third

grade teacher and I have both implemented your system and

LOVE LOVE LOVE IT! It makes so much sense, and it works.

EVERYONE in the class is at ease, including the teacher,

every day.

Katie Welch

Muskegon, Michigan

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