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Discipline Without Stress Newsletter – December 2008

Volume 8 Number 12

IN THIS ISSUE:

1. Welcome

2. Promoting Responsibility

3. Increasing Effectiveness

4. Improving Relationships

5. Promoting Learning

6. Discipline without Stress

7. Testimonials and Research

8. SPECIAL ARTICLE ABOUT THE HIERARCHY OF SOCIAL DEVELOPMENT

1. WELCOME

MONTHLY RESPONSIBILITY AND LEARNING QUOTE:

People will forget what you said.
People will forget what you did.
But people will NEVER forget how you prompted them to feel.

—from Dr. James Sutton
The nation’s expert on oppositional defiant behavior
http://www.docspeak.com/

———

A prime difference between DISCIPLINE WITHOUT STRESS and
other approaches is how to react when young people behave
irresponsibly.

The updated “Impulse Management” link will be of great
assistance in helping adults deal with young people to
become more … >>>

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Discipline Without Stress Newsletter – November 2008

Volume 8 Number 11

IN THIS ISSUE:

1. Welcome

2. Promoting Responsibility

3. Increasing Effectiveness

4. Improving Relationships

5. Promoting Learning

6. Discipline without Stress

7. Testimonials and Research

1. WELCOME

MONTHLY RESPONSIBILITY AND LEARNING QUOTE:

Our job is to teach the kids we have–
Not those we would like to have,
Not those we used to have,
But those we have right now–
All of them.

Bill Page

———

We act according to what we believe. In other words, what we
believe determines what we do. It makes no difference if
it’s true or not. We believe it.

We burned witches at the stake. Burning was the only way to
kill the evil spirit within the body. It makes … >>>

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Discipline Without Stress Newsletter – October 2008

Volume 8 Number 10

IN THIS ISSUE:

NOTE: This issue is longer than usual because of the special article for elementary teachers and parents of young children.

1. Welcome

2. Promoting Responsibility

3. Increasing Effectiveness

4. Improving Relationships

5. Promoting Learning

6. Discipline without Stress

7. Testimonials and Research

8. Special Article for Elementary Teachers and Parents

1. WELCOME

MONTHLY RESPONSIBILITY AND LEARNING QUOTE:

Dear Dr. Marshall,

Thank you for all your monthly letters and invaluable
advice. The “Raise Responsibility” approach has been the
best class management approach I have ever used in 28 years
of teaching.

Granted that “low socioeconomic” levels may be short on
values and behavior clarification resources, other
socioeconomic levels may be just as needy. Presently, … >>>

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Discipline Without Stress Newsletter – September 2008

Volume 8 Number 9

IN THIS ISSUE:

1. Welcome

2. Promoting Responsibility

3. Increasing Effectiveness

4. Improving Relationships

5. Promoting Learning

6. Discipline without Stress

7. Testimonials and Research

1. WELCOME

MONTHLY RESPONSIBILITY AND LEARNING QUOTE:

Why is classroom management (procedures) so important?

1) If you don’t have good management, you will have (to a
greater or lesser degree) chaos. You can’t teach someone to
be SELF-disciplined in the midst of chaos. Simple as that!

2) The discipline approach itself is actually based on
handling most discipline problems by helping the
undisciplined students with procedures to keep themselves in
control. It’s hard to help someone else create effective
procedures if you aren’t doing it well yourself.
–Kerry Weisner

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The … >>>

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Discipline Without Stress Newsletter – August 2008

Volume 8 Number 8

IN THIS ISSUE:
1. Welcome

2. Promoting Responsibility

3. Increasing Effectiveness

4. Improving Relationships
5. Promoting Learning

6. Discipline without Stress

7. Testimonials and Research 

1. WELCOME MONTHLY RESPONSIBILITY AND LEARNING QUOTE:

There’s only one corner of the universe you can be certain
of improving, and that’s your own self.

Aldous Huxley.
———

I had the distinct pleasure of speaking in Toronto, Canada
last month at the 20th anniversary of Kumon Canada and the
dedication of their new corporate office.

The event coincided with the 50th anniversary of Kumon
http://www.kumon.com. Toro Kumon was a high school math
teacher in Osaka, Japan. When his son had difficulty with
mathematics, Kumon started to tutor him. The success was … >>>

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Discipline Without Stress Newsletter – July 2008

Volume 8 Number 7

IN THIS ISSUE:

1. Welcome

2. Promoting Responsibility

3. Increasing Effectiveness

4. Improving Relationships

5. Promoting Learning

6. Discipline without Stress

7. Testimonials and Research

1. WELCOME

MONTHLY RESPONSIBILITY AND LEARNING QUOTE:

Increase the positives and decrease the negatives so that

all students keep their yearning for learning.

W. Edwards Deming.

———

Some people think that individuality is simply a matter of

being different from everyone else–having a different hair

style, dressing differently, or having an individualized tattoo.

Being really different has nothing to do with this type of

individuality. For example, If you get a tattoo for the same

reason others get a tattoo, then others are influencing

you–and in some cases, directing you. Anyway … >>>

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Discipline Without Stress Newsletter – June 2008

Volume 8 Number 6

IN THIS ISSUE:

1. Welcome

2. Promoting Responsibility

3. Increasing Effectiveness

4. Improving Relationships

5. Promoting Learning

6. Discipline without Stress

7. Testimonials and Research 

1. WELCOME

MONTHLY RESPONSIBILITY AND LEARNING QUOTE:

Counterwill, as the name indicates, is a natural resistance

to coercion. This newsletter is devoted to approaches that

eliminate counterwill.

———

In order to give a more complete understanding of how a

school can conduct its own staff development of the

“DISCIPLINE WITHOUT STRESS TEACHING MODEL,” the

“Implementation Instructions” have been posted at

http://marvinmarshall.com/In_House_Package.html.

———

In an attempt to reduce school dropouts while increasing

student achievement, a nonprofit public charitable

organization has been created to implement the DISCIPLINE

WITHOUT STRESS TEACHING MODEL. Any public … >>>

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Discipline Without Stress Newsletter – May 2008

Volume 8 Number 5

IN THIS ISSUE:

1. Welcome

2. Promoting Responsibility

3. Increasing Effectiveness

4. Improving Relationships

5. Promoting Learning

6. Discipline without Stress

7. Testimonials and Research 

1. WELCOME

MONTHLY RESPONSIBILITY AND LEARNING QUOTE:

If you ride a horse, sit close and tight.

If you ride a man, sit easy and light.

–Ben Franklin

———

NEXT SEASON ON “SURVIVOR”

Work and learning both require effort. However, they are so

different that I devoted the epilogue in my book

(http://www.disciplinewithoutstress.com) to the differences

between “work” in employment and “work” in learning. The

differences are so apparent to me that the only time I use

the word “work”–as in “homeWORK”–is in the index.

With this in mind, enjoy the … >>>

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Discipline Without Stress Newsletter – April 2008

Volume 8 Number 4

IN THIS ISSUE:

1. Welcome

2. Promoting Responsibility

3. Increasing Effectiveness

4. Improving Relationships

5. Promoting Learning

6. Discipline without Stress

7. Testimonials and Research 

1. WELCOME

MONTHLY RESPONSIBILITY AND LEARNING QUOTE:

Discipline is defined as the ability to make yourself do

what you have to do or should do before you do what you want

to do.

—The National World War II Museum

   New Orleans, Louisiana

———

Dr. George Thomas, former Phi Delta Kappa International

President and leader of the education program at Mississippi

State University in Meridian, hosted my presentation to

over 100 attendees at their Phi Delta Kappa meeting.

The university is one of only fourteen in the nation that

has a partnership … >>>

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Discipline Without Stress Newsletter – March 2008

Volume 8 Number 3 

IN THIS ISSUE:

1. Welcome

2. Promoting Responsibility

3. Increasing Effectiveness

4. Improving Relationships

5. Promoting Learning

6. Discipline without Stress

7.Testimonials and Research

1. WELCOME

MONTHLY RESPONSIBILITY AND LEARNING QUOTE:

The February 25, 2008 cover article of U.S.A.’s TIME

MAGAZINE was entitled, “How to Make Better Teachers.”

My thoughts after reading the article:

Great teachers understand that they are in the relationship

business. Many students–especially those in low

socio-economic areas–put forth little effort if they have

negative feelings about their teachers. Superior teachers

establish good relationships AND have high expectations.

These teachers communicate in positive ways, such as letting

their students know what the teacher wants them to do,

rather than by telling students what … >>>

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Discipline Without Stress Newsletter – February 2008

Volume 8 Number 2 

IN THIS ISSUE:

1. Welcome

2. Promoting Responsibility

3. Increasing Effectiveness

4. Improving Relationships

5. Promoting Learning

6. Discipline without Stress

7. Testimonials and Research

1. WELCOME

MONTHLY RESPONSIBILITY AND LEARNING QUOTE:

First, I want to say that I have taught for 25 years and

have never had to use rewards or punishment for discipline.

However, I have moved to a new school where every teacher in

the school uses the “pull your card” or “move your boat,”

etc., resulting in punishments or rewards.

I have never had to do this but have been able to TEACH MY

STUDENTS TO BEHAVE BECAUSE IT WAS IN THEIR BEST

INTERESTS
AND THE RIGHT THING TO DO. However, some … >>>

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Discipline Without Stress Newsletter – January 2008

Volume 8 Number 1 

IN THIS ISSUE:

1. Welcome

2. Promoting Responsibility

3. Increasing Effectiveness

4. Improving Relationships

5. Promoting Learning

6. Discipline without Stress

7. Testimonials and Research

1. WELCOME

MONTHLY RESPONSIBILITY AND LEARNING QUOTE:

Likeability is the shortest path to believability and trust.

In this, the U.S.A.’s presidential year, it may be

worthwhile to reflect on the one quality above others that

prompts people to vote for a particular candidate. That

factor: likeability.

The reason, as mentioned above, is that likeability is the

shortest path to believability and trust.

Three practices are most effective for being likeable. They

are (1) communicating in POSITIVE, rather than in negative,

terms; (2) showing OPTIONS that are available; and (3)

REFLECTING on … >>>

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Discipline Without Stress Newsletter – December 2007

Volume 7 Number 12  

 IN THIS ISSUE:

1. Welcome

2. Promoting Responsibility

3. Increasing Effectiveness

4. Improving Relationships

5. Promoting Learning

6. Discipline without Stress

7. Testimonials and Research 

1. WELCOME

MONTHLY RESPONSIBILITY AND LEARNING QUOTE:

The following is from a recent e-mail sent me about the

book: http://www.disciplinewithoutstress.com/

“I ordered your book a few years ago. Loved it! Loaned it!

Then lost it!

“So I ordered it again. This is the best book I

have read on teaching in the classroom.”

Laura Fair

Science Teacher

Kenowa Hills High School

Grand Rapids, Michigan

———-

I had the pleasure recently of presenting in Port Hardy on

Vancouver Island, British Columbia, Canada.

Since most subscribers to this newsletter have never seen me… >>>

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Discipline Without Stress Newsletter – November 2007

Volume 7 Number 11

IN THIS ISSUE:

1. Welcome

2. Promoting Responsibility

3. Increasing Effectiveness

4. Improving Relationships

5. Promoting Learning

6. Discipline without Stress

7. Testimonials and Research 

1. WELCOME

MONTHLY RESPONSIBILITY AND LEARNING QUOTE:

The following was sent to me from someone who recently

subscribed to this newsletter.

“I am a teacher candidate at York University in Toronto. We

are using your book for one of our classes.

“It is amazing! It seems so easy, it’s almost too good to be

true! Thank you.”

———-

On October 10, 2007, I had the pleasure of presenting in

South Africa. The country is undergoing the most radical

change of any modern country as it moves away from complete

separateness (apartheid) … >>>

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Discipline Without Stress Newsletter – October 2007

Volume 7 Number 10

IN THIS ISSUE:

1. Welcome

2. Promoting Responsibility

3. Increasing Effectiveness

4. Improving Relationships

5. Promoting Learning

6. Discipline without Stress

7. Testimonials and Research 

1. WELCOME

MONTHLY RESPONSIBILITY AND LEARNING QUOTE:

I have been using your book as my teacher education pedagogy
text for the past three years. I am getting better each year
at teaching my student teachers how to teach the system so
that children can internalize the concepts. There are a
couple of former student teachers (now in their 3rd year of
teaching–one at 1st grade level, one at 6th) who let us
visit their classrooms to see the model in action. This is
extremely powerful.

My approach to “discipline” and “classroom … >>>

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Discipline Without Stress Newsletter – September 2007

Volume 7 Number 9

IN THIS ISSUE:

1. Welcome

2. Promoting Responsibility

3. Increasing Effectiveness

4. Improving Relationships

5. Promoting Learning

6. Discipline without Stress

7. Testimonials and Research 

1. WELCOME

MONTHLY RESPONSIBILITY AND LEARNING QUOTE:

The biggest thing was the length of time it actually took

for me to stop telling and to start asking questions. It

took me a long time to retrain myself, and I still tick

myself off for reverting back to my old ways–but it really

makes the interactions you have with children so much nicer.

Playground duty is a breeze when you ask questions rather

than tell kids what they should be doing.

———-

2. PROMOTING RESPONSIBILITY

A post at DisciplineWithoutStress@yahoogroups.com:

One of the … >>>

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Discipline Without Stress Newsletter – August 2007

Volume 7 Number 8

 IN THIS ISSUE:

1. Welcome

2. Promoting Responsibility

3. Increasing Effectiveness

4. Improving Relationships

5. Promoting Learning

6. Discipline without Stress

7. Testimonials and Research 

1. WELCOME

MONTHLY RESPONSIBILITY AND LEARNING QUOTE:

Education, democracy, and individualism are not only

interwoven, they rely on each other for the creation of a

productive society.

–John Dewey (1859-1952)

From a plaque under his sculpture

The National Portrait Gallery, Washington, D.C.

———-

I was recently asked whether or not I am a behaviorist.

My response:

Behaviorism usually refers to approaches of Pavlov

(classical conditioning of stimulus/response) and Skinner

(behavior modification by reinforcing behavior AFTER an act

occurs).

Behavior modification is popular in schools, especially with

special education specialists. Unfortunately, MANY … >>>

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Discipline Without Stress Newsletter – July 2007

Volume 7 Number 7
 

IN THIS ISSUE:

1. Welcome

2. Promoting Responsibility

3. Increasing Effectiveness

4. Improving Relationships

5. Promoting Learning

6. Discipline without Stress

7. Testimonials and Research 

1. WELCOME

MONTHLY RESPONSIBILITY AND LEARNING QUOTE:

Rules are essential in games because they are meant to
CONTROL. Rules do not inspire.

If your purpose is to control, then rely on rules. However,
if your intentions are to inspire and teach, then share your
expectations and teach procedures.

———-

I recently added a new link to my homepage to help teachers
and parents who deal with young people with learning
disorders and neurological based behaviors. Please share the
site with others who are dealing with young people with
special needs. The … >>>

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